I’m afraid that’s a question that only you can answer. Some men set a pretty quick deadline. Others set no deadline at all. I think the right answer depends a lot on where your heart is at. Generally though, I encourage men to be more patient with emotional affairs than physical affairs, offering lots of forgiveness. Emotional affairs, while just as painful as a physical affair, tend to be easier to recover from than their physical counter parts because both spouses can learn to understand the addiction-like nature of them.
Coach Mike Hesson and skipper Kane Williamson had a long chat with both Tim Southee and Tom Latham before they began their usual fielding drills on the morning before match day. While Southee's chat lasted a while, Latham's was pretty crisp, as it seemed, which ended with a pat on the back from the coach. One could've speculated the duo being left out, but you can never be too sure. As it turned out, those chats seemed to be about exactly those decisions as the pair was replaced with Adam Milne and Glenn Phillips in the XI. While Milne conceded 30 runs in his four overs, Phillips didn't get a chance with the bat.